Marital Attention Drift on Arrival of Children to Marriages.

‎The union between a man and a woman popularly known as Marriage is often a celebration of two who afterwards are considered as one.
Arrival of children are the blessings attached that sustains the union's happiness bringing about some fulfillment.
Most couple hardly identify the drift of the attention they once shared because of the course of caring for the children. Such ‎attention drift is one of the major causes of broken homes tagged "irreconcilable Differences" .Whereas the few marriages that survived to the end holds a consistent awakening of a fact that
(1) children's love shouldn't take away the love and affection that existed before they came
 (2) Children comes into the union,grows up and leave back the two folks who started the race, who must have the love and affection sustained in order for them to live together again before death do them apart.
A wise union is a Marriage that is never devoid of the attention it started with up to the end.
If we all keep this in mind and practice,we will likely witness more sustained marriages in this later times.‎


Source: odinachi Gloria Amadi's Personal Thoughts.
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DREAMS

it's not enough to dream then abandon the dreams by not working towards its accomplishment.
Every living being dreams of prospective future and life but the onus of achieving our dreams lies in our willingness and consistency to work hard in the direction of set goals mapped out inline with achieving the dreams.
Sometimes for dreams to come through,we make sacrifices and also put away things that are not neccesary and focus on needs, necessities and not focusing on WANTS.
Many of us have achieved so much after a wild imagination of what we intend to achieve in life.we dream about it and start to achieve them  by working towards it.
Dreamers didn't just start to make it overnight.They started via imaginations, thoughts,plans,set goals and putting in the hardwork required to achieve their dreams.

SOURCE:EXcerpt by Odinachi Gloria Amadi

African refugee arrested in Texas 'for trafficking girls and prostituting them online' .

An 18-year-old man believed to be a refugee from Africa is being held without bond on a sex trafficking charge after he was arrested for allegedly bringing two 15-year-old girls from Phoenix and then prostituting them on a classified website.

 FBI assistant special agent Keith Byers says authorities arrested Edema Missiadan after police in Mesa, Arizona, relayed information that a girl possibly was being forced into prostitution in the El Paso area.
 An undercover investigator responding to ads offering escort service on the notorious classified website Backpage.com set up a meeting at a Super 8 Motel in El Paso Wednesday evening, and Missiadan was arrested on one count of sex trafficking of children.
 The case against Missiadan involves two 15-year-old girls who were believed to have come to El Paso from Phoenix on Tuesday, said Agent Byers. One of the alleged victims possibly was featured in at least 164 ads offering escort services outside El Paso. Missiadan made his initial court appearance on Thursday, telling a federal judge that he did not know why he was being charged, as he committed no crime, and said he is a US citizen. Court records indicate that the 18-year-old's brother, 21-year-old Mawuli Missiadan, was arrested in June in Arizona on a slew of child prostitution and drug charges too." 

Another witness concerning #SaveMayowa

popular cobbler who lost his ability to walk in 2013 after being shot in the spine many times calls out Aramide of @lifestakefoundation. _ Lifestake foundation is a 100% non profit organization comes to the aid of people in dire need of medical help.
In April, Aramide, the C.E.O of the foundation issued a disclaimer insinuating that @tunde4life81 who touched the heart of many Nigerians is a scammer. Three months later, she blew the whistle and told the world that #Savemayowa is also a scam. _ “They said they had already called the hospital in America, they needed $100,000.

They mailed it to me, I looked at it. It now dawned on me that the hospital in America said treatment is going to cost $3,000 – $30,000 per treatment, and she needed 10-50 treatments. Technically, what she needed was N150 million, but that wasn’t what they raised.
 All they just picked was the $100,000. “The hospital also said to them that she needs $1,780 for an invitation. There was no invitation, no visa, nothing! So they already knew what they were doing from the onset.”- she told @ynaijaonline. _ Well, that's it. Tunde is speaking out. According to him, his case with Mayowa is similar." 

"At last someone is standing up 😇👍

Hmm @lindaikejionline madam news carrier/ publisher you are the master mind behind all this just beware don't post anything that you are not 100% sure of just cos of your crave to make more money ur actions could cause a great mishap . @ynaijaonline @fashionbuzztv @naijablogger @blissconnectv @nollywoodmoviestv @infonaija @goldmynetv and other online tv this concerns you too please help us promote the truth and justice . Nigerians y ? Why are we always antangonising ourselves and fail to recognise the truth and kindness . What on earth warrant all this ranting on this innocent prestigious citizen @aimakhutoyin . I don't know her from anywhere except seeing her on tv but with what she did doing the 3days of #savemayowa @handsandfingersfoods to me she has become an hero and even God has a good register of her and her good deeds . Nothing at all I repeat nothing at all should make the patient family or anybody point any accussing fingers to her . Despite her status she brought her self down and didn't think of her prestige she had work to do but still she went to the hospital every day till the whole thing became a mess ."

I really think we need to start acting right"

Take a closer look at this picture of "Mompha's stacks". The screen in the back looks like he is at a currency exchange & the luggage proves he is at an airport. Now please explain to me, which immigration/border services allow you to carry this much cash without being claimed? Even when you declare cash, there is limits on how much you can take into each city. View the staff in the background. My simplest guess, he knows someone at the currency exchange who let him pose with cash before they transport it out, explaining why it is wrapped & has a white paper infront of the stacks. 🔍 #borrowpose #suspiciousbehaviour" 

Toyin Aimakhun's side of story concerning #SaveMayowa

In view of the recent happenings around Mayowa Ahmed's ill health and the many allegations of fraud surrounding the funds raised, it has become imperative that I come clean by stating my side of the story and by implications, set the record straight. When I got wind of Mayowa’s sickness, I was moved to tears and immediately sought to know how I could help, hence my on-the-spot video which went viral as my genuine intervention.
 Indeed, I was overwhelmed by the quick response of well-meaning Nigerians to whom I will forever owe a debt of gratitude.
 But all this changed yesterday, Thursday 28th, July, when I went to the hospital in the morning to check as well as follow up on Mayowa.
Her brother had told everyone to leave them alone because they wanted privacy. Although I was shocked at the sudden change in attitude, especially the tone of communication, I still did not suspect anything was amiss. However, on my way out, I received a call from one Aramide Kasumu of Life Stake Foundation, who would later claim the whole Mayowa Ahmed fund raiser was a scam. Importantly, she wanted to know the extent of my involvement and in her words, “so that when they are giving their reports, I would not be roped into it”.
She went further to state that the family deceived everyone in the first place by raising funds for Mayowa despite the fact that her case was helpless and the hopes of her survival was near impossible. She seemed to know so much, I reckoned. Upon hearing this, I was appalled and in a bid to clear my name, I went back to the hospital in palpable anger and demanded explanations from all concerned. Perhaps, I overreacted when I went into a rage of anger over the matter with the CSO.
I then alerted the Police PRO, who invited the parties involved to the police command. I want to state for the record that I have never been a fraud and will never partake in one, not even at this stage of my career (which I hold to heart).
All my efforts were strictly on humanitarian grounds without recourse to any pecuniary consideration or the resort to cheap fame. That said, whatever discomfort my reactions may have cost anyone" 

Two Nigerian children pictured crying profusely after losing their mum on their way to Europe

Two Nigerian siblings, 11 and 10 are pictured crying after their mother died in the Mediterranean on their way to Europe. The two children were among 150 migrants rescued from their overcrowded rubber boat off the coast of Libya while trying to cross the Mediterranean ocean into Italy by a Spanish NGO’s boat. . ....God have mercy on these little ones." 

Why I had sex with my biological daughters – 40-year-old man

A 40-year-old man, who hails from Mkpat Enin Local Government Area, LGA, of Akwa Ibom State, has confessed to having sexual intercourse with his teenage daughters.

The suspect, Okon Jimmy Amah, allegedly turned his daughters – Enobong, 16 and Imaobong, 13 into sex objects and always raped them without using condoms.

Amah, a mechanic, who was dragged before the State High Court in Uyo, the state capital, on Thursday confessed to the crime.

According to New Telegraph, the father of four had sexual intercourse with both girls at different times, especially at midnight in their home.

Enobong, who is a Junior Secondary School, JSS3 student in the state also sells recharge cards at the State Secretariat Complex in the state capital.

The 16-year-old girl was living with her mother in Benin, Edo State, until April 9, 2015, when she decided to visit her father in Uyo. It was after she got there that her father turned her into his lover.

Narrating her ordeal, Enobong said, “My father started soliciting sex from me. In fact, that April, my father forcefully had sexual intercourse with me in our small room. He had sex with me in the middle of the night. He has had sex with me several times. I have lost count of the number of times he had sex with me.

“What is making this issue explode now is that one day, after I returned from selling recharge cards, my father got angry that I got home late. I tried to explain to him that I had to balance my account. He refused to accept my explanation. He started flogging me with a fan belt.

“My father beating me is nothing new but the beating of that particular day, was too severe. The beating left a lot of bruises on my body. It was so obvious that one of my customers, who noticed the bruises the following day, asked me what happened.

“I poured out my heart to the customer. The shocked customer happened to be a lawyer who took the matter to the Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Welfare, Akwa Ibom State.

“I was invited to share my horrifying experience.”

Enobong was said to have further revealed that she had once told her stepmother, that her father used to have sex with her and her younger sister, Imaobong.

On her part, Imaobong said she was 11-year-old when her father started having sex with her.

In tears, she narrated: “My father returned home one day and called me to a quiet place. He asked me whether I had ever had sex with a man before. I said no. He said he would be the first man to have sex with me. I was shocked. I wanted to say something, but he shouted at me to shut up.

“When it was midnight, my father raped me. I cried and felt ashamed. He raped me, not once, not twice. He raped me several times. One day, my mother heard me crying, she came to me. I told her the little I could. My mum was angry. But my father didn’t stop having sex with me. My mum knows about it,” she added.

According to the report, the Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Welfare invited the police and Amah was arrested and charged to court.

Amah was arraigned on three-count charge of incest, carnal knowledge and assault, contrary to Section 242 and 364 of the Criminal Code, Laws of Akwa Ibom State.

Speaking before Justice Okon Oko, the accused, married to two wives confessed to have had sex with both of his daughters. He however added that he was only attempting to check if the girls were still virgins.

Amah said: “Yes, I slept with my daughters in the bedroom room, while my wife was sleeping in the sitting room. My wife was ill with malaria. She had been ill for a week. Sometimes, my wife used to deny me sex. That was why I solicited sex from my daughters.

“Aside from my wife sexually starving me, I suspected that my daughter, Imaobong, wasn’t a virgin.”

He said needed to confirm.

Speaking further, he said “I suspected that Imaobong has had sex with a man. But when I inserted my manhood into her vagina, I discovered that she had never had sex. At that point, I immediately removed my manhood from her vagina.

“In the case of Enobong, I also intended to find out if she has had sexual intercourse with any man.

“When I inserted my manhood into her vagina, I discovered that no man has had sex with her. I immediately removed my manhood.”

Amah further admitted to using car fan belt to beat Enobong, after having sex with her.

He said, “It’s true I flogged my daughter with a car fan belt, after which I dumped it in my pit toilet.”

The judge ordered that the accused be remanded in prison custody and adjourned the case till September 12 for trial.

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13-year-old boy murders three children in China [PHOTOS]

A 13-year-old boy identified only as Shen, has reportedly murdered three children in China.

The suspect was said to have murdered three children aged 4, 7, and 8 in south China’s Guangdong province on July 25 using a knife and rock before fleeing for days, Peoples China Daily is reporting.

Shen fled his hometown in Wuzhou, south China’s Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region on the said date after reportedly committing the murder.

Over 100 police officers and more villagers were said to have launched a manhunt for him.

He was spotted by villagers some 140 kilometers away from his home, while the bodies of the three victims have also been discovered.

Upon his arrest yesterday, the teenager was quoted to have told the police he left home on July 9 after beingscolded by his father. He then roamed around till July 18, when he went to the village the three victims lived in.

Shen, who said he saw no adults around, took the three kids out and asked them to tell him the whereabouts of the money and valuables in their home.

The kids were said to have kept mute and Shen who feared the kids would tell their parents about his conducts, allegedly killed the three children with rocks and knife.

According to the report, Shen, since then had been roaming the streets.

The teenager reportedly added that he had always been wandering away from home on and off since he was six-year-old.

The Guangdong Public Security Department, PSD, stated that his wandering away from home on and off explained why he could survive in the wild while on the run after the murder.

“Shen went to the three victims’ house. The victims’ father, not knowing the fates of his own children, took out food to host Shen, before going out to look for his three kids.

“Shen managed to steal two bicycles, money, and food all the way through the 140 kilometers and fled to another province until he was spotted and caught.”

10-year-old girl chained, abandoned in building by aunt

The police in Ogun State have rescued another chained 10-year-old girl identified as Promise Udeh, at Adigbe area of Abeokuta, the State capital.

According to the Punch, the girl was rescued on Thursday when neighbours living close to the building where she was chained and abandoned told the police.

Recall that at the weekend, a-nine-year boy, Korede Taiwo was chained in a room for about a month by his father, Mr. Taiwo, who is the pastor in charge of the Key of Joy Parish of the Celestial Christ, Ajinwo, Ota area of Lagos state.

The Ogun State acting Police Public Relations Officer, Abimbola Oyeyemi, while confirming the incident said the girl was allegedly chained by her aunt, name given as Chiamaka Okafor, for stealing N4,000.

The PPRO disclosed that Chiamaka is currently on the run but her husband, Sunday Okafor has been taken into custody.

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Ekweremadu: Mixed reactions trail Pete Edochie’s attack on Buhari, APC

Mixed reactions have trailed recent comment made by renowned actor, Pete Edochie on the alleged moves to remove the deputy Senate president, Ike Ekweremadu, from his position.

The actor’s statement generated controversies from a section of Nigerians on the social media, with some suggesting that his comments could get him into trouble.

He was advised to face his acting career and stay away from politics, if he wants to live longer.

DAILY POST recalls that recently, Edochie blasted the President Muhammadu Buhari-led government and his party, the All Progressives Congress, over their insistence on the removal of Ekweremadu as the Deputy Senate President.

The APC leadership, including some governors elected under the party’s platform, see the removal of Ekweremadu as a task that must be accomplished.

The respected actor in a post on his Facebook wall entitled: “Pete Edochie Quotes” slammed the Buhari-led government for chasing shadows while the situation in the country worsened.

He wrote in part : ‘If Ekweremadu’s removal will help stabilize the economy, then, they should do all within their power to remove him.

“If Ekweremadu’s removal will stop Nigerians from losing their jobs, then,it is a task that must be done.

“If Ekweremadu’s removal will make Buhari to abandon his 97% and 5% policy, stop Buhari from seeking to turn Nigeria to a fiefdom where the only capable hands are only people from a certain part of the country, then, Ekweremadu’s immediate constituency should recall him from the senate.”

Concerned Nigerians on Facebook however suggested that his comments could get him into trouble.

Below are some reactions that trailed the veteran actor’s post on Facebook as well as on the DAILY POST website where what he said was also published as news story:

@Tman: “Anoda Igbo supporting Nija project. IPOB, where is your base? It seem u are a prodigal son?”

@pando: “Tman, your comment shows you lack understanding and did not understand Pete’s message.”

@ Emakpo Yenrie Austin: “Come Nor Be Juju Thing Or Occultic Film Wen U Dey Art,commot Ur Mouth 4rm Pdp And Apc Wahala.”

@Josephat Eze: “You no go leave them alone this one no be acting na real life something, oga clear oo hmm.”

@Tolulope Yemisi: “See ,people one thing about Nigeria is we’ll just stay here to talk we can do nothing. Rather,let’s pray that things will go well in the NASS because anything can happen it is in the same country that senate president was removed what did we do nothing.”

@Ararhure Eseore: “Mentic! there is wisdom in his sayings” I think the senate leadership tussle is a distraction and unwarranted. They have chosen their leaders so be it. Let them work for they are being paid to work for the citizens of this country this issue has lingered on for too long and it’s becoming unnecessary waste of time and energy. Considering the time, resources and energy put into this project and it’s not yielding the desired result, it’s high time we let the sleeping dogs lie.”

@Yusuf Babatunde Adeniyi: “Old man,pls leave the politicians to play their game.where were you under GEJ.”

@Fayose jnr: “Oya buruhari where is Efcc, icpc and sss? let them go after ogadagidi! you know you don’t like truth, especially now that you have ear problem, cos I see another fayose who has endured enough of your nonsense. soon all Nigerians will speak out. useless set of vultures in human skin#APC. God bless Chief Edochie, God bless Chief Ekweremmadu, God bless Chief Fayose, God bless Biafrans!!!

@Abxyo Zira: “Na snuff de talk but the man don collect Ghana most go sef.”

@ M_SMOORE: “THAT WILL ONLY COME FROM A WISE MAN WHO KNOWS HIS ONIONS. WE ARE ALWAYS PROUD OF YOU, OGARAGGIDI.”

@Dreamlord King: “Old fool how much dem pay u modern slave.”

@King Isaac Chukwunonye Ezeh: “P edochie close ur dirty mouth and face ur film acting. May be ike ekweremadu use to give u money dats y u want him to remain dere and still money for u. Respect ur old age and enter ur house before politics consume ur head. Dnt toil wit governors.”

@ Joe: “That’s his own personal opinion to which he is perfectly entitled. Whether there is any sense in it remains to be seen, but definitely one thing is certain – The country is getting hotter for all those who have been benefitting from the corrupt system.I pray that all of them will soon burn out.”

@ okwokwu: “I thought pete edochie should face what he knows best. He should not allow tribal segment becloud his reasoning. Ike ekweremadu must go. we have uwaejiogu from imo state to take over. ike ekweremadu is there for his pocket as pete edochie is in the film industry for himself. if pete edochie dabbles into politics sorry go be his name.”

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COMMON CAUSES AND REASONS FOR NOT GETTING PREGNANT!

1. Too Much or Too Little:

It is perhaps the most vital and basic of human needs to have sex and reproduce. However, it is essential to ask yourself-

Are you having intercourse enough number of times to be able to improve chances of getting pregnant?

Are you having too little intercourse that could be hampering your chances of conception?

Either way you swing on the above question, the result won’t be good. It is important to have proper and healthy sex life, with ensuring that the timing is according to the female partner’s ovulation cycle. There are many applications available today that can help track the approximate accurate time for ovulation. However, if you do not have a healthy sex life, it is important you consult a doctor and work towards overcoming any apprehensions and inhibitions that you may have, in order to conceive.

Do you have sex when you are think you are ovulating? It is very easy to skip the fertile period if you are just having sex when you are ovulating. Samuel Wood, the medical director of Reproductive Sciences Center at La Jolla CA, advises to have sex as often as they like, and more frequently during few days before ovulation. If you have irregular periods or problem tracking your fertile windows use an ovulation kit. If the result show that ovulation will happen within 1 or 2 days then make sure to have sex during this time. Keep in mind, that if you just have sex for having baby in mind, then you can’t enjoy the process.

2. Are You Stressed?

A little bit of stress is very normal during pregnancy. However, if you are stressed day in and day out, then you should contact your midwife or doctor right away. Since, constant anxiety can affect the baby directly. The stress hormone cortisol can cross the placenta and affect the building blocks of your child’s emotional and physical development.

Many complex factors can influence the child’s ability to learn and his cognitive ability to relate to the world. So for your baby’s sake you need to control your stress levels.

Here are some ways you can reduce your stress levels:

• Take enough rest and don’t feel guilty about it. Your body is working extra hard to nourish your baby and you. So you feel fatigued most often and need sleep. So go to sleep early.
• You can sing or read to your baby because he or she can hear you from about 23 weeks. This is a great time to bond with your unborn baby. This will give you great joy and reduce stress immediately.
• If you are having a personal problem or you are concerned about for baby’s wellbeing talk to your doctor or midwife. If you are honest while expressing your concerns you will get proper help.
• Talk to your partner about these fears and you may find that he might have similar fears and other thoughts that didn’t occur to you before. Talking it out is a great way to reduce stress.
• You can also communicate or chat with other moms to be in the antenatal exercise class and who are in the same stage of pregnancy as you are. This will help you to understand how others are tackling the same problem and you will get some ideas to solve your problem too.
• Eating well is essential for both your mind and body. Nothing looks good on an empty stomach! A healthy diet of omega 3 essential fatty acids, vitamins and minerals can lift your mood. Omega 3 fatty acids are found in fish like tuna and salmon. So try two portions of oily fish every week. You can have yummy preparations made from tuna, salmon, sardines, mackerel, pilchards and trout. Always eat freshly cooked fish and make it at home to avoid food poisoning.

It is also important to have essential amino acid tryptophan to boost your mood. The body can’t produce tryptophan and gets it from food you eat. Tryptophan raises the levels of brain chemicals like melatonin and serotonin that helps you to sleep well and lifts your mood. Having nuts, seeds, freshly cooked chicken and turkey, yogurt, cheese, fish and eggs helps to introduce tryptophan in your body and helps to make you feel rested and cheerful.

• Stay hydrated by drinking enough water because dehydration can cause headache and make you irritable.
• Exercise, though gentle, can improve your mood drastically. It is perfectly safe to exercise during pregnancy and helps to keep your stress under control. Pranayama or breathing exercises and prenatal yoga works magic in improving your mood. It also helps you to look at life from the positive angle and promotes a general sense of overall wellbeing.
• Take a relaxation massage and if you are using essential oils then ask the doctor whether it is safe to use during pregnancy.
• If financial stress is bogging you down then make a list of things you need for your baby post-delivery and see whether you can use them by borrowing it from friends or cousins, this will save a lot of money.
• Read enough but not overload yourself with information. You can clarify whatever you read with your doctor and find out if the claims made by certain book are true.
• If you are working while you are pregnant then talk to you employer about commuting. Talk an early maternity leave or try to work from home. Don’t let work stress eat into you and cause stress.
• Gradually prepare for your family life and express your concerns to the close members of your family and take their advice.
• Read comics or share a good joke with your friends and chat with friends who have great sense of humor. Since laughter is the best medicine to dissolve stress.
• Don’t let negative thoughts and worry take an upper hand stay positive.

Ask yourself this simple question, are you under a lot of stress. Stress affects us in more ways than we recognize and understand. There are a whole lot of online tests available today to assess if you are under stress.

Stress affects the way a woman’s body functions, affects the ovulation and menstruation cycles that could cause a whole lot of timing issues to get pregnant. Also, stress in men affects their sperm count and it often reduces the count by a considerable amount than is normally required for successful conception. Identify your stress level by:

Take a stress test and visit a doctor. See if you are under stress and take action to reduce that stress to cut one of the reasons of not getting pregnant.

[ Read: Food To Get Pregnant ]

3. Are You Running To The Bathroom After Sex?

Many women tend to rush to the bathroom after having sex to clean up, wash or just to relieve them. It is important to mention here that, it is essential to stay in bed for at least a minimum of 20 minutes post the sex activity to ensure that you can conceive and the sperm gets a chance to reach the egg. If you rise, rush and run as soon as you are done with the act, you are letting Mother Nature’s gravity drag the sperm out and the rest of it is washed away when you clean up.

So, it could be one of the reasons for not getting pregnant. Focus on relaxing and lying in bed for a while after the sex so that you can improve your chances of conception and getting pregnant.

4. Are You Drinking And Smoking Too Much?

Sometimes excessive smoking and drinking can reduce the chances of getting pregnant. Both these addictive habits have the ability to reduce the chances of getting pregnant by affecting the reproductive system in the body. To improve chances of getting pregnant, make sure you both quit or reduce smoking and drinking.

5. Are You Both Wearing Undergarments A Tad Too Tight?

Many a times we wear undergarments that are too tight to get the shape right or feel better. It is important to understand that while you are wearing these tight undergarments to accentuate your body and figure and feel good, you might unknowingly be damaging your body’s production of sperm in a man, and reduce the breathing and comfort when it comes to a woman.

Wear well fitted, but prefer cotton undergarments to avoid any kind of infections, reduce sweating and related problems, and allow your privates to breathe and relax.

6. Are You Working Out Too Much?

While you might be a health freak and working out to sweat it all out in the gym, it is important to understand that extreme exercise can be one of the major contributing factors for not getting pregnant. If you are working out too much, you are reducing your fat percentage in the body and as a result sending your menstrual cycles into a toss, leaving your body in a state of not being able to get pregnant. Overweight and underweight are both a problem area for conception.

7. What To Do If You Need Your Daily Dose of Exercise?

While you might feel it is okay to work out as much as you do, it could be important to reduce your exercise levels just a little to be able to get pregnant. Check with your doctor to understand the optimum level of exercise you should undertake to stay healthy and get pregnant.

• Reduce the use of treadmill to an optimum speed and time to get pregnant
• Exercise in moderation
• Don’t stop exercising once you conceive
• If there seems to be side effects, contact and reach out to your doctor

Besides the above given reasons, there might be a steep chance that you are doing everything right and leading a balanced lifestyle and taking good care of yourself, but the ability to conceive still evades you. It could then be a case of a medical condition that can exist in either of the partners. It is important to note that though sometimes, there are cases where lifestyle, living and work patterns become the causes and reasons for not conceiving, at other times there are underlying medical conditions that might need the advice and guidance of an expert.

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Funny though !

This is just wrong!! Please say no to piracy and buy original copies of @funkejenifaakindele's Jenifa's diary.

@funkejenifaakindele's Jenifa's diary. She works so hard to bring this hilarious and interesting tv show to you.. Do spread the word and let's all join hands to fight piracy! Bless.. #Repost @chiomakpotha ・・・ All the sleepless nights, headaches, injuries, disappointments, tiredness, fatigue, stress and all the hassles that come with producing and bringing to life your content will all be worth it if first of all it brings smiles to the faces of the viewers , teaches morals and we get returns on effort and money spent. It is so sad to know that people sit within the confines of their homes and "places of work" with no time at all, ship out someone else's time, money and sweat! THEY PRACTICALLY TAKE THE JOY AWAY!!! This is so painful and as a producer and content provider , I feel what @funkejenifaakindele is going through now. It is not just her fight, it is our fight and since the government is yet to put their full weight behind us to fight this battle we shall do our own bit with our voices. Say no to piracy ! Help spread the word on all your social media platforms! Buy the original DVD of Jenifa's Diary. #PiracyMustDie #ItIsOurFight #UnitedWeSucceed #UnitedWeStand #RaiseYourVoice #SpreadTheWord #PiracyInNigeriaMustDie #Actor #Producer #Nollywood #PiracyInNollywood #ItIsOurFight 💔💔💔 @omonioboli @ritadominic @ufuomamcdermott @uchejombo @k8henshaw @blessingegbe1 @uduakisong1 @ememisong @ayaka_global @digitalpmoglobal" 

Who should we believe? Toyin Aimakhun, Linda Ikeji or Mayowa who is sick????

Today, July 28, 2016, there were reports that the #SaveMayowa which was a campaign to raise funds for Ahmed Mayowa Shukurat who has stage IV ovarian cancer was a scam by her family members to take money from innocent Nigerians.

According to these unconfirmed reports doctors in LUTH had already told Ahmed Mayowa Shukurat’s family that her case was advanced and it was too late for her to be saved but the family still went ahead to raise funds by deceiving Nigerians that her cancer was curable.

Also Toyin Aimakhu who spearheaded the movement to save Ahmed Mayowa Shukurat’s life yesterday took to her Instagram page to say that the #SaveMayowa campaign was fake and Nigerians should stop donating.

“Please to the public this is so fake, no more GoFunds on behalf of Mayowa and whoever is behind this shame on you. Please disregard any information/s about her pls.

If you need any info please kindly get in touch with me please and will bring more info tonight again, whoever created this acct shame on you again and lastly to all our Pastors, Alfas and traditionalists and everyone please she needs our prayers more now please and I’m sure god wants to use Mayowa case to let us know we Nigerians love ourselves and we are the best country in the world.”, she wrote on her page.

Toyin Aimakhu took a step further by taking members of the Nigerian police force to LUTH to arrest Ahmed Mayowa Shukurat’s brothers. You can see her in LUTH today in the videos below;

Pulse went to LUTH to investigate if the accusations were true.

Speaking to Ahmed Mayowa Shukurat’s sister Ahmed Mariam at LUTH she told Pulse that Toyin Aimakhu’s accusations are untrue and unfounded.

“I don’t know why Toyin Aimakhu and Linda Ikeji are saying we are scamming Nigerians. It’s a lie! No doctor ever told us my sis cannot survive this they just told us to do something and take her out of the country. Nigerians we did not scam u ooo it’s a lie oo. Linda Ikeji has never been in this story and now she’s just cooking up everything to just…

“Right now my sis is in d room crying. I don’t know what Linda wants from us. It is true. she has ovarian cancer. We sent the medical report we posted everything on line. At least we posted everything online.

“No doctor ever told us it’s stage four. It’s not until two weeks ago they told us she has ovarian cancer. So even if we know she’s going to die we have to do something. Nobody even asked her to do the video she did it herself she’s tired.. I don’t know where Linda cooked d story” she told Pulse exclusively.

By the time Pulse got there Toyin Aimakhu and some relatives had been moved to the Area D Police command Mushin, Lagos.

"Her Majesty, Olori Wuraola-Zynab Ogunwusi along with His Imperial Majesty

@oloriwuraolaogunwusi: "Her Majesty, Olori Wuraola-Zynab Ogunwusi along with His Imperial Majesty, the Ooni Oba (King) Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi have been named the official Royal ambassadors for Hepatitis Advocacy in Nigeria. __ World Hepatitis Day and the SHECA Foundation in conjunction with NOhep has put together a series of events to promote screening, prevention and treatment of Hepatitis. The SHECA foundation, led by Princess Adepeju Hameed, is a non-profit organization dedicated to informing and sensitizing the public about the disease, as well as providing support for care. Hepatitis is manageable and curable if detected early and appropriate action is taken. Other Goodwill Ambassadors include General Yakubu Gowon and Media Personality Latasha Ngwube, who kicked off the walk for Hepatitis July 28th in Ile-Ife Nigeria to create awareness and give free screening and vaccines to the people in the rural area. Photo courtesy of Latasha Ngwube. #WorldHepatitisDay #OoniofIfe #OloriWuraola #HMWuraola 

LUTH Chief Medical Director reacts to ‘Save Mayowa’ saga

The Chief Medical Director, Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Idi Araba, Professor Chris ‘Bode, has reacted to report of a scam allegation involving the family of Ahmed Mayowa Sukurat, an ovarian cancer patient in admission at LUTH.

Professor Bode said the management of the hospital was not aware of the scam and will investigate the report.

“I am hearing the case for the first time,” the LUTH boss told Tribune.

“The hospital will make proper investigation on her case and we will inform the public as at when due”, he added.

The internet has been flooded with pleas of financial support to ‘Save Mayowa’.

However, a popular blog yesterday punctured the claim of the family, reporting that the online campaign launched to raise money for Mayowa was a scam,

The ‘Save Mayowa’ campaign had raised N32million in three days.

Cc dailypostngr 

Well,Toyin Aimakhu should have done proper investigation with the doctors before alerting Nigerians. 

RCCG member rapes church member during ‘surprise’ birthday party

The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a 31-year-old man, identified only as Damilola, for allegedly raping a 25-year-old woman on Omole Estate, in the Ojodu area of the state.

It was gathered that the victim and Damilola are members of a parish of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, and that the woman had invited the suspect to her birthday party on Tuesday, July 19.

Punch reports that the victim was allegedly told by the suspect five days after the birthday party that he had a surprise gift for her.

The two were said to have gone to Damilola’s apartment on Otubor Street on Omole Estate.

A neighbour, who spoke on condition of anonymity, said Damilola had failed to show up at the victim’s birthday party and allegedly lured her to his house a week later.

She said, “Damilola and the lady were church friends. The lady had her birthday on Tuesday, July 19, and she invited all youths in the church who were her friends. Damilola, however, did not come. He, thereafter, called her to apologise and promised to make it up.

“On the following Sunday, Damilola called her that he had set up a makeup party and that the two were going to a restaurant. However, he took her to his house in the estate, and locked her up. He beat her up and raped her.

“When the lady regained her freedom, she reported the matter at the police station. On Monday, she, accompanied by other church youth executive, went to the DSVRT office in Alausa to make another report.”

Cc Punch

Bricklayer abducts two children, sells three-year-old for N1,500 .

A suspected child abductor, Ola Ibikunle, has been detained by the police after he was caught with a four-year-old girl in the Oyero area of Ijoko, Ogun State.It was learnt that Ibikunle, a bricklayer, had held his victim, Eniola, by the neck and was about to strangle her in an uncompleted building when he was caught by passersby.

 The suspect, who confessed to have stolen a three-year-old boy and sold him for N1,500, was later handed over to operatives of the Special Anti-Robbery Squad of the Agbado Police Division.

 PUNCH Metro gathered that Eniola and her 11-year-old sister, Opeyemi, were following their father, Segun Quadri, to a church in Ijoko around 2pm on Tuesday.

The father was said to have gone some distance ahead when the suspect ambushed the children and abducted Eniola. The victim’s sister, Opeyemi, reportedly raised the alarm which caught the attention of some passersby.

The suspect was reportedly met in an uncompleted building while trying to strangle the girl. 

 An angry mob had beaten him up before the police arrived on the scene.Ibikunle, who hails from Ado-Ekiti, Ekiti State, told our correspondent that Eniola was his second victim. The suspect, who spoke in Yoruba, confessed to have stolen a three-year-old boy around the Ijoko area sometime in June and sold him to a man in the Sango area for N1,500. He said: “I am a bricklayer, but I use child abduction to augment my wages. 

A man in the Sango area contracted me to always get children for him. I don’t know what he uses them for. Last month, I abducted a boy of about three years and sold him to the man for N1,500 “This girl (Eniola) was the second child I would abduct, but I did not succeed.” 

The victim’s father, Segun, said he and the children were already late for a church programme on that day which made him to walk faster than them. He said: “The incident happened around 1pm on Tuesday. 

We had a programme in our church and we were late. Since Opeyemi is older, I thought they should be able to find their way to the church..... 

“I had gone some distance ahead when some people called me that Opeyemi said her younger sister had been abducted. 

She said the abductor escaped with Eniola to an uncompleted building and she led us there. We met him holding her by the neck.” A police source told Punch that efforts were being made to apprehend the buyer of the abducted children. “

The suspect has confessed to the crime and he stated that he sells his victims to a man in the Sango area. 

But he has yet to mention the name of the kingpin. Some operatives followed him to the area twice, but he did not lead them to the man’s house. We are going to ensure that we track him down,” the source said. The Ogun State acting Police Public Relations Officer, ASP Abimbola Oyeyemi, said the suspect would be further investigated. He said, “It is a case of suspected child stealing. The police were able to arrest the suspect with the help of residents. The Commissioner of Police, Ahmed Iliyasu, has directed that the suspect should be transferred to the command headquarters for a thorough investigation.

If I stop talking, Nigerians will suffer – Fayose .

Governor Ayo Fayose of Ekiti State has warned electorates in Ondo State not to vote for the All Progressives Congress in the forthcoming governorship election.The governor, who said the party was not a good option for people of the state, boasted that if he stopped talking about the current government, Nigerians would suffer. . . . Fayose gave this advice on a radio programme in Akure, the capital of Ondo State.He said the APC government had failed the people of Nigeria in the last one year of its rule. . . . He said, “Don’t let me deceive you my people in Ondo State, don’t allow the APC to take over this state, if you allow them, your condition would be worse than what you are passing through now, their government would be a disaster for you. “They have nothing to offer, all they know is propaganda, you can see what is happening in Nigeria now, if you vote for them what they are doing at the national level is what they would be doing here. . . . . You can see what is happening in all the states they are controlling. “Look at our condition in Nigeria, our condition is getting worse on daily basis, they have no solution to the economic problem facing the nation currently, yet they say they want to take over your state, I enjoined you, don’t allow them, they have nothing to offer. “If I stop talking, Nigerian masses will suffer, a government without an opposition will not do anything, they want to shut me up, but I will not stop talking, let them continue to abuse me, I don’t mind. . . . . “I am not attacking the President, I don’t hate the President but what I have been saying is the truth and they too know I am saying the truth. I am saying the truth so that the President can do things that will benefit the people of this country. All of us cannot keep quite.” cc dailypost"