MARRIAGE! !

Marriage is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives. It is standing together facing the world by telling them that you can stand it. It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family. It is doing things for each other and not complain or Nag about it, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy and free minds. It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways to eachother. It is not looking for perfection in each other,its about knowing your wrongs and your rights . It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humour. It is having the capacity to forgive and forget and also learn how to let go of too many things . It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can remain,remain and grow. It is finding room for the things of the spirit by letting it flow. It is a common search for the good, beautiful and kind hearts . It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal,which is give and take. It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner and practicing the right thing as husband and wife. It is discovering what marriage can be, at its best.