MARRIAGE can only be handled by God

Haven read through your views about the causes of broken homes in marriages,I will like to share 7 major reasons and these reasons can be categorized into the following: 

* MONEY: When the purpose of marriage is mainly of monetary values such marriages are bound to hit the rocks when trial comes. ‎ 

* ALCOHOL and DRUGS : When any partner in a marriage becomes addicted to alcohol or drugs, such addiction could deter them from performing their family duties which in turn leave the family with lapses.‎ ‎ 

*SEXUAL PROBLEM : Most couples do not see the need to keep up with their sexual satisfaction that has being ‎created before marriage. *IMMATURITY :Married life is for adults, not for children. Immaturity is the fourth leading cause of broken homes. There is an age when we are not sure about anything. A toy may be ever so much fun one day, and discarded the next. Much of this same uncertainty goes with the person through adolescence with regard to marriage. ‎      ‎ 

*HOLLYWOOD MYTH: ‎": It's based on the artificial and often unrealistic picture of love and life as depicted by many motion picture films. Two children were talking, one said to the other, "How do you like your new daddy?". The other replied "fine". Whereupon the first said, "That's good, we had him last year". The kind of loose thinking which is the basis for such stories, is a prime ingredients  in many needless cases of divorce ‎ *INLAWS:"Therefore, shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife. And they shall be one flesh." These are God's words in Genesis Chapter 2, verse 24. Every couple should establish their own home away from parents. Should this not remove the interference then move so far away that contact with in-laws is limited. Problems will arise, differences will sometime seem impossible.      ‎ *TIME PROBLEMS:Work and home schedules are not always compatible. Time spent apart and time spent together are equally important for maintaining a good married relationship. When time is used in a balanced way, it results in opportunities for growth and harmony. A lot of time spent alone without a corresponding period of quality time spent together puts a lot of stress on a marriage.‎ Other factors that may cause a broken home are: Communication problem between the parties,Friends influence, Mental and physical abuse by either party,Personality and expectation problems. Show less