How come everywhere we go, we hear stories of Men mistreating their wives? The story is so common that you begin to wonder if it is the only problem we are facing in the society.
In CHURCHES no preaching goes without the mention of Men mistreating women, in FORUMS no discussion is made without the mention of Men mistreating women, on SOCIAL MEDIA you will not see any post without the mention of Men mistreating women,among FRIENDS no gist will begin or end without the mention of Men mistreating women, in our ENVIRONMENT you hear a lot of stories about Men mistreating women.
People don't even talk about other ways that can also be seen as suffering in the life of a Woman aside beating. Now, what you see as suffering in the hands of a man might not be the way a fellow woman sees it, there are different kinds of mistreat.
Some other ways that constitute mistreating of a Woman are: When a man doesn't value you as a woman, when a man does not respect your opinion at any given time, when a man talk you down in the present of people, when a man does not assist you with house chores when he's less busy "no woman is a slave", when a man reminds you of how you were before he got married to you,when a man is interested in how much you earn and not ready to disclose his, when you are not part of his plans,when a man finds it difficult to contribute to the family even when he has,when a man is ready to disgrace you in presence of strangers e.t.c. All these are examples of being mistreated by a man. You don't have to wait until he beats you before you straighten out things.Find a way to make things right......Wipe off those tears and use your discretion to do what it takes to make it better.
Source : Personal thought
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