11 Nov 2016

Ebonyi state Lawmaker Maria Ude Nwachi has called out Linda Ikeji


Ebonyi state Lawmaker Maria Ude Nwachi has called out Linda Ikeji over her recent statements that she can't marry a poor man, and that the man must be good in bed. She considers Linda's statement an affront on humanity, said Linda should know that no condition is permanent : According to her, Linda can't have it both ways and must learn to humble herself if she truly wants to find a man who will marry her : She wrote 👉 I do not agree with her at all. Firstly; a rich man is nothing but a poor man with money. And; no condition in life is ever permanent : Important: A man is a man, poor or rich. No man with his head in intact, will be okay for a woman to control him. Even if the woman is richer than money itself. It will not happen. Even the poorest man on earth would rather be eating his Indomie in peace than to be controlled by any woman. This applies even in the civilized world. This not about pride, this is human nature : On money: Being rich, poor or broke is not a permanent state of being. Moreover; money is not the be all and end all of life. Some people are very rich today not just by hard work but by force of universe which can also be interpreted as grace. Let us not dismiss people based on their current condition. Moreover, he only thing constant in life is change : 
 The problem i see with Linda is that she is often too open about her feelings. I will advise that in her search for a man that she should keep some of her criterias private. This is not America, this is not oyibo land where women can say and do anything with minimal or no consequence. 
Emotional intelligence is knowing your environment and adapting to it; especially when it comes to utterances, actions etc. It is not everything the heart conceives that must be uttered publicly : 
 Dear Linda, you can't have it both ways. You can't eat your cake and have it too. Being a very successful woman in Nigeria, you must be willing to compromise when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex. You might not be a girl, due to your high level, a man can tell what to do or what not to do, but you must not say such out loud... She said :" 

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